Reactivity tools · the pause

Gap Trainer

The gap is the space between a feeling and the story that rushes in to fix it. Hold it a few seconds, notice when you're pulled away, and come back. Five short reps a round. The gap gets longer with practice.

How to hold it
Target, in seconds
Start at 3 to 5. Move up when 4 of 5 reps reach the target.
Intone it once before each rep, then hold the gap.

Your gap over time

Average gap held per round, in seconds

What pulls you

Across all reps you tagged