Happiness Concierge v1.4
Happiness training for high performers

Experience your 9/10 day. Every day.

Unblock your recurring bottlenecks and enjoy being Unconditioned.

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The work

Reactivity is a tax you pay each day. Its cost is your happiness and agency.

When high performers try to improve their wellbeing, what generally comes up is doing "more". But the real change happens when you do less of the things that pull you down, whether that's avoidance or looping around the same thought patterns.

We train this like a sport: a clear diagnosis of what breaks, the reps you need to do, and progress measured consistently. As your reactivity drops, your baseline increases, and a happier version of you takes more action, more easily.

meditation retreats spiritual woo endless journaling reps in real life ✓
Results

What changes, in their words.

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I'm deeply grateful I worked with Michael. Two years later, the changes have stuck. Bad moods just aren't as sticky anymore: I get far less wrapped up in stories about how I feel, staying present is much easier, and I've noticed I'm no longer averse to whatever life is asking of me. I'm more productive when I want to be, and also more willing to make room for my emotions when they come up. I'm a much better partner and friend, because I can actually be with other people's suffering without panicking inside. And I'm far more ambitious. I'm doing things my past self would have found unthinkable, like quitting my job to follow my dreams.
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Zach LauzonSoftware engineer · ex-Google
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Ever since I started working with Michael, my progress has catalyzed tremendously. His approach is straightforward and direct, his guidance compassionate and humorous. If you're looking to seriously reduce your suffering, Michael is your guy.
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Sheel P.GTM · Ex-Google
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Working with Michael has been nothing but a gift. He brings a compassionate, generous and loving quality of attention to the people he works with.
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Vijay D.Trader
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I had very little meditation experience and it was a breath of fresh air. Regularly talking with Michael kept me on track, so I progressed much faster without the usual diversions.
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D.Software Engineer
The method

A training plan instead of homework.

Create structure to have a simple next step. Work on costly experiential loops to improve your capacity for action.

01
Assess

Clarify the blocks

We'll find the pattern taxing you the most, whether it's avoidance, a conflict or plain procrastination.

The outputYour patterns map + baseline score
02
Observe

Watch it in real time

Direct pointers separate sensations, narrative and identity, so the loop loses its grip. Most people notice a shift within 1-2 calls.

The outputThe first experiential shift
03
Repeat

Lock in the gains

With tiny reps in difficult situations, whether at home or at work, plus somatic resets, the new floor survives the pressure of daily life.

The outputIncreased recovery, week over week
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Play bigger

Act from clear signals

Bring the change to all domains. Bigger actions, taken on clean fuel, not fumes.

The outputYour 9/10 baseline, with higher agency
Podcast

Conversations on enjoying it all.

Fetters Fireside #1

with Yan-David Erlich · Investor, B Capital

Whether this work kills ambition (it doesn't), feeling more agency afterwards, using dissatisfaction as fuel for change, and the newfound magic of chores.

Fetters Fireside #2

with Marc Houghton · Senior Consultant

How it changed the way he parents his daughters, staying calm and engaged at work without effort, and why "normal" days became pretty good days.

Fetters Fireside #3

with Zach Lauzon · SWE, ex-Google

His 10x bet on happiness, what contentment did to his professional ambitions, and how relationships changed as he opened up to emotion.

Fetters Fireside #4

with Sherjil Ozair · AI Founder, General Agents

10x-ing his moment-to-moment wellbeing, decoupling having things from being content and productive, and the "price tag" of unfettered happiness.

Unconditioned #5

with Vasco Quieros · Psy-Op Expert

The first Unconditioned episode: clean fuel vs dirty fuel in productivity, panic attacks that led to more freedom, and capping his max suffering.

Investment

Two ways in.

Monthly Coaching

Steady, targeted guidance to change your recurring loops and raise your baseline.

$2,425 / month
Pause at the end of any month
  • 4 × 60-minute calls per month
  • Direct messaging and email between calls
  • Custom process designed around your actual blockages
  • Tracking your baseline, so you actually notice the shift
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Limited spots

Custom Intensive

Designed for high performers in high-stakes seasons who want the fastest transformation possible.

TBD
Scoped together on a call
  • High-cadence calls and priority access (up to 5 calls per week, or 120 minutes per call)
  • Deep diagnostic and progress mapping
  • On-demand support around key decisions and moments
  • Confidentiality-first, NDA on request
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FAQ

Straight answers.

Still unsure? That's what the fit call is for.

What kind of situations do you work with?+
Anxious or depressive patterns, grief and long-held regrets, doomscrolling and phone addiction, procrastination and distraction from the important things in your life. Really, anything that's causing you suffering or unhappiness.
Will I lose my ambition or drive?+
The opposite. Dropping unnecessary suffering makes your decisions and actions better, and people usually notice a new zest for trying things and starting projects. The work you currently force yourself through can run on cleaner fuel, and you get to be happy while doing it.
How much time does it take?+
Around 40 to 60 hours in total, across 3 to 4 months, for the full process I recommend. That's a weekly 60-minute session together, plus practice on your own in short "micro-hits": 5 to 7 minutes a few times a day while cooking, doing chores or between meetings. No sitting meditation or breath-focus needed.
Is this therapy?+
No, and it's not a substitute for psychotherapy or medical care if you need them. The coaching is about clearly seeing your reactive patterns without buying into their narratives, seeing the suffering we put ourselves through, and then dropping it. Call it meta-cognition if you prefer.
Is this spiritual stuff?+
No dogma, woo or belief systems. The process is a series of practical exercises you try yourself, and the benefits build up from there. Simple, though not always easy.
Schedule here

50 minutes to see our fit.

Exploring whether the process fits your needs, goals and availability.

50 min · video callFreeYou leave with a clear next step

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