Experience your 9/10 day. Every day.
Unblock your recurring bottlenecks and enjoy being Unconditioned.
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Reactivity is a tax you pay each day. Its cost is your happiness and agency.
When high performers try to improve their wellbeing, what generally comes up is doing "more". But the real change happens when you do less of the things that pull you down, whether that's avoidance or looping around the same thought patterns.
We train this like a sport: a clear diagnosis of what breaks, the reps you need to do, and progress measured consistently. As your reactivity drops, your baseline increases, and a happier version of you takes more action, more easily.
Drop the instinctive reactivity
Notice the mechanism behind self-conflict clearly enough that it stops running you.
Increase the baseline
Less stickiness and faster recovery for recurring issues, so ordinary Tuesdays get closer to your previous peak days.
Develop high agency
Less internal drag, leading to streamlined actions and faster, conscious decisions. You can just do things.
Aim bigger, towards your ideal lifestyle
Ambitions that make you feel alive, instead of following other people's "templates".
What changes, in their words.
I'm deeply grateful I worked with Michael. Two years later, the changes have stuck. Bad moods just aren't as sticky anymore: I get far less wrapped up in stories about how I feel, staying present is much easier, and I've noticed I'm no longer averse to whatever life is asking of me. I'm more productive when I want to be, and also more willing to make room for my emotions when they come up. I'm a much better partner and friend, because I can actually be with other people's suffering without panicking inside. And I'm far more ambitious. I'm doing things my past self would have found unthinkable, like quitting my job to follow my dreams.
Ever since I started working with Michael, my progress has catalyzed tremendously. His approach is straightforward and direct, his guidance compassionate and humorous. If you're looking to seriously reduce your suffering, Michael is your guy.
Working with Michael has been nothing but a gift. He brings a compassionate, generous and loving quality of attention to the people he works with.
I had very little meditation experience and it was a breath of fresh air. Regularly talking with Michael kept me on track, so I progressed much faster without the usual diversions.
Get more context before the call.
The way I work
How working together actually looks: the approach, the calls, and what to expect along the way.
Read → Essay · 8 minYour suffering floor matters more than your peaks
Why raising the baseline beats chasing great days.
Read → Essay · 5 minReactivity is a trainable skill
Treating your mind like a sport, not a spiritual project.
Read →A training plan instead of homework.
Create structure to have a simple next step. Work on costly experiential loops to improve your capacity for action.
Clarify the blocks
We'll find the pattern taxing you the most, whether it's avoidance, a conflict or plain procrastination.
Watch it in real time
Direct pointers separate sensations, narrative and identity, so the loop loses its grip. Most people notice a shift within 1-2 calls.
Lock in the gains
With tiny reps in difficult situations, whether at home or at work, plus somatic resets, the new floor survives the pressure of daily life.
Act from clear signals
Bring the change to all domains. Bigger actions, taken on clean fuel, not fumes.
Conversations on enjoying it all.
with Yan-David Erlich · Investor, B Capital
Whether this work kills ambition (it doesn't), feeling more agency afterwards, using dissatisfaction as fuel for change, and the newfound magic of chores.
with Marc Houghton · Senior Consultant
How it changed the way he parents his daughters, staying calm and engaged at work without effort, and why "normal" days became pretty good days.
with Zach Lauzon · SWE, ex-Google
His 10x bet on happiness, what contentment did to his professional ambitions, and how relationships changed as he opened up to emotion.
with Sherjil Ozair · AI Founder, General Agents
10x-ing his moment-to-moment wellbeing, decoupling having things from being content and productive, and the "price tag" of unfettered happiness.
with Vasco Quieros · Psy-Op Expert
The first Unconditioned episode: clean fuel vs dirty fuel in productivity, panic attacks that led to more freedom, and capping his max suffering.
Two ways in.
Monthly Coaching
Steady, targeted guidance to change your recurring loops and raise your baseline.
- 4 × 60-minute calls per month
- Direct messaging and email between calls
- Custom process designed around your actual blockages
- Tracking your baseline, so you actually notice the shift
Custom Intensive
Designed for high performers in high-stakes seasons who want the fastest transformation possible.
- High-cadence calls and priority access (up to 5 calls per week, or 120 minutes per call)
- Deep diagnostic and progress mapping
- On-demand support around key decisions and moments
- Confidentiality-first, NDA on request
Straight answers.
Still unsure? That's what the fit call is for.
What kind of situations do you work with?+
Will I lose my ambition or drive?+
How much time does it take?+
Is this therapy?+
Is this spiritual stuff?+
50 minutes to see our fit.
Exploring whether the process fits your needs, goals and availability.
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